Online dating service allows most single men and women to find their life partner in a sooner time. For many Asian girls (specially Chinese girls, Thai girls and Vietnamese girls), online dating seems to favor them because of their pretty faces, hot body shapes and femininity. However, all those advantages in you might not be enough to attract a western man to go into the next stage with you. So what western men expect from a single Asian lady? How should Asian beauties prepare for the first date? Listen what western men tell us.
I want her to:
Wait till I ask you out. This may sound old fashioned but men love the chase, allow yourself to be pursued and enjoy it.
Let me be your gentleman. Allow him to book a table, open doors, compliment you and pay for the meal etc; give him control of the first date!
Be a happy Asian girl. Let him feel comfortable to stay with you; radiate good energy, smile and your date will be all the more entranced.
Compliment a man, the things he is doing for you, the choice of meal etc. Guys also love to be flattered.
Approach the date with the aim of having fun; forget about whether he is Mr Right and focus on just enjoying yourself and having a good time.
Take an interest in HIS interests. Don’t just talk about yourself and what you like to do.
Don’t mention your ‘ex’! There’ll come a time in any relationship when both of you will talk about your past relationships. Unless the guy specifically brings up the subject, a first date really isn’t the time.
Turn your mobile ‘phone off. If you’re taking calls from your friends or reading texts, your date will soon lose interest. Only keep your phone switched on if you’re expecting a VERY important call.
Be careful how much you spend on his credit card if the guy has invited you out for a meal. You don’t necessarily have to choose the cheapest items on the menu, but don’t order lobster and Champagne either. If a man invites you out for dinner on a first date, don’t use it as an excuse to indulge yourself in a way that you wouldn’t do if you were paying for yourself.
Say thank you – in fact you should say it twice; at the end of the date as you’re saying goodnight and then either in a follow-up ‘phone call or by text message the next day. Even if you don’t want to see him again (in which case, thank him by text!), you don’t want to give him the impression that you have no manners.
If you follow the tips above, you can probably arouse his interest in you. And then it’s the beginning of your romantic story with a western guy.